A Guiding Hand for Families in Special Care Nurseries - Digital - Book - Page 38
Special Care Nursery (SCN)
The Role of Dads
Mums and babies are often the centre
of attention, especially in hospital. But
this is a tough time for dads too, both
emotionally and physically.
You are probably holding the family
and the household together on your
own. It’s even tougher if you have to
go to work as well. Family and friends
may also be contacting you to find
out how mum and baby are doing.
‘Tips for Dads’ can be downloaded
from: www.lifeslittletreasures.org.au
Dads can take on specific tasks like
reading to the baby. It can also ease
the pressure if friends can bring a
meal around or help with school pick
up. This will give you more time to
spend with your baby, your partner
and your other children.
See our new app on our website that
facilitates the distribution of tasks.
The love and care you provide as a
dad can make a difference to your
baby’s health and development
but it is also really important to look
after yourself. Most new parents put
their own needs second. It is hard to
juggle running your home, work and
visits to the hospital. Try to eat well
and get enough sleep. You can also
talk about how you are feeling to
someone who understands.
At Work
Talk to your Manager about the
situation. If your employer knows
what is happening, they may be
able to give you more flexibility with
your job. If you have other children
at home, you may also be eligible
for in home care
support – check
For further
with Centrelink for
information
more details. If
and to read more
you find it difficult
Dad stories, go to
to deal with other
our website
people’s questions,
it may be worth
explaining things to one
colleague you trust and ask them to
pass this information to others on
your behalf.
With Baby
Remember that you can assist
in caring for your baby in the
same way as the baby’s mother,
including feeding, bathing, nappy
changes and Kangaroo Care. This
can help you and your baby get
to know each other, as well as
take some of the pressure off your
partner. Many dads read to their
babies at night as an excellent
way to bond with their baby.
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